In 2019, I packed two suitcases and a carry-on and moved to Beijing. Massive, radical change has a way of stripping everything back to what's true. Mine showed me how to choose myself.
You don't need your world to turn upside down to do the same. Choosing yourself starts with paying attention to the voice you stopped trusting, to what lights you up, and to what no longer fits. Sometimes it leads to a one-way ticket.
In choosing myself, I learned how to love myself, and how to love others more fully. I want you to peel back the roles, the expectations and everyone else's noise, and meet who you truly are. You do not have to have it all figured out. I didn't.
If you're wondering whether it's too late to begin again, it isn't.